Burnt Toast by Virginia Sole-Smith

Burnt Toast by Virginia Sole-Smith

Essays

Divesting from Garden Perfectionism

Because July is everything, everywhere all at once.

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Virginia Sole-Smith
Jul 29, 2025
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Before we get started today: I know we’re all feeling desperate about the cognitive dissonance that is existing in the world right now. Some orgs that I’m supporting:
  • Inara, which is getting food to families who have no means of otherwise accessing it. You can donate here (Click on ‘Rapid Response in Gaza’).

  • World Central Kitchen announced three days ago that they are able to cook meals again — around 60,000 daily. You can fund those meals here.

  • The Sameer Project is providing whatever medical, food, and water aid is possible with the current restrictions. Donate here.

Thanks to Anne Helen Petersen for compiling this list; I’m mostly reposting it here because I know how it is when you’re numb and overwhelmed but keep meaning to donate. Maybe this will be the nudge you need to do it!
You can also sign up here to learn more about participating in the Parent’s Solidarity Fast for Gaza; thanks to Angela Garbes for putting this on my radar!
(Please note that fasting is not a safe or accessible political action for many of us. I’m told there will be many versions of the “fast” and ways to be involved!)
Solidarity, friends. xx

July Garden Toast

Julyyyyy

In last month’s Garden Toast, we talked about gardening as a form of body liberation. And I stand by everything I said, but that’s also absolutely an essay I’d write in June. The June garden (here, anyway) is very orderly and well-behaved, in a way that I find so empowering. There are show-stopping perennials like peonies and irises, and everything else is just cute little seedlings, or a delightful green froth of potential.

The July garden though, is something else, because July is when the chaos arrives. A reader recently asked: “How do you deal with perfectionism in the garden?” And it’s an excellent question because gardening can be a dangerous hobby for perfectionists. But the answer is, you meet July and realize…all bets are off.

Below the paywall:

  • Peak meadow!!!

  • A very genius method for staking up the cutting garden.

  • This year’s garden fails.

  • How I let go of perfection—and am a better gardener for it.

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