The Lindy West Discourse I referenced last week reached a real fever pitch over the weekend, so I had to get my thoughts in order and write about it.
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Meanwhile, on the pod, we have Savala Nolan back for part 2 of our conversation. This time we’re getting into why so many men are “voting booth feminists,” why she’s pro-chivalry, and lots of thoughts about divorce, love and motherhood. It’s SUCH A GOOD ONE, you guys!!
One Good Thing
Over on Big Undies, Corinne Fay wrote such a smart piece about the “oversized” clothes trend. It absolutely drives me nuts when something is “fashion” just because it emphasizes someone’s tiny body by making them swim in fabric. (And yet these same brands can’t make plus sizes? Hello?) And yet I am trying to shift myself out of skinny jeans mode and embrace the comfort of bigger clothes even if they make me look bigger.

To that end, this oversized boyfriend cardigan (gag at that name) is getting a lot of wear right now. I’m wearing the 2X and it is, indeed, roomy. It goes up to 3X (the biggest Quince ever goes and not for most of its inventory despite clearly having the ability!). Rest of outfit linked here (affiliate; I found a dupe for the boots bc they’re old and from a brand I’m not shopping rn).


