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Deb Benfield's avatar

ALL of this! And the relentless media coverage is messing with countless humans and their recovery and mending processes. Many of my clients who graduated and moved on are now reaching out because they feel the return of their disordered thoughts and behaviors. Those who were feeling stable before all of this hype are now struggling mightily with this renewed promise of losing weight again. Losing weight FEELS LIKE belonging, like redemption, like feeling safe. This does NOT reflect on my clients. This feeling pulled back by another promise reflects just how f*cked up our culture is. Media's loud noise about this new shiny promise is shaking the foundations for so many. Can we talk about that, please? Thank you for addressing this!!

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Laura Lippman's avatar

Thanks for writing this. The New York magazine piece really upset me. For one thing, it dug its claws into parts of my mind I thought I had quieted, kicked up all sorts of anxieties. But the main thing that bugged me is that, except for the one quote from Aubrey Gordon, it felt as if someone had just ripped off a mask and said, "Ha, ha, we were just kidding about fat acceptance and coming to terms with the data that diets don't work and being cool about everyone's body, obviously if there was a 'magic' pill to end fatness, everyone would take it if they could get it." I'm just pissed, but I've decided to focus on "have to take it forever" and "explosive diarrhea."

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